The feeling of security can allow one to actually be so confident. When i became so insecure, lost and aimless... i couldn't bring myself to venture into something which i am not familiar with. I wasn't in the state of being capable of being alone. There was always someone there. Someone for me to feel safe with. Someone there that i obtain my support from. Someone so close that i can share anything with. And when it's gone... i was like a cripple without his walking stick...