"A true voyeur, almost always a man, does not find it particularly exciting to watch a woman who is undressing for his special benefit. The element of risk seems important, for the voyeur is excited by the anticipation of how the woman would react if she knew he was watching. As with all categories of illegal behavior, prevaluence is difficult to assess since most illegal activities are not reported to the police. Indeed, people with voyeurism are more often charged with loitering rather than with peeping itself." (Kaplan & Kreuger, 1997)

Lol. Loitering. Sounds so ... ... juvenile.

Anyway since i am studying sexual disorders now, i kind of thought about what was said last night. The Teh Nees had a gathering cum Yenmei's 20th birthday celebration at Riverside Indonesian Restaurant. Healthy turnout again =)

Had a good time catching up with the freshies before going to TCC. The topic of "tong ju"(living together before marriage) was brought up, and i was explaining to them living together is a whole new level, and that in my opinion, it should be encouraged if possible. And thus relating to all these sexual disorders, i was thinking tong ju will allow you to know if you partner has any sexual sadism or masochism disorder =p What if don't know then suddenly he whips out a pair of handcuffs. A bit off but ya... =)

Haha by the way, FYI these disorders are only diagnosed when it causes marked distress or impairment in functioning.