Why is it that there is a need for a guy and a girl to go through the whole process of courtship aka jioing part before they can be in a BGR? The only answer is that to know each other better first, and to prevent making "mistakes", and getting sad and stuff. How nice will everything be if both sides just decide to "try it out", as in both parties know each other, but yet "not so well". There is no rule that says that both sides got to go through the tedious and 'mafan' process of courtship. Think of ber and eunice manz...hahaha...Maybe all guys should just try their luck and pop the question to the girl they are interested in asap...perhaps...just perhaps the whole relationship may be better than one that has gone through all the shit.