When a guy manages and succeeds in a relationship.The confidence gained, or rather the mojo that is obtained, which in one way or another, helps in everything. It is not that the guy took some stupid pill and become extremely attractive overnight, but it is the gain in confidence, which makes everything so easy, and it sort of become part of him. He will just say he is being himself, which in some way is true. What exactly happened, no one will quite know. Except perhaps it is just the emotional barrier, which is preventing many things from being done, stopping many acts from being accomplished. Therefore, once the barrier is past, everything will somehow just fall into the places, opening up a clear path for him to walk through.