when u say frens no longer care as much....or are drifting away....or taking u for granted...
i mean its like...if true frens are really there...no matter how little time they spend wif u...or how little they contact u...probably bcos at this time when everyone is busy...i dun see the need to doubt their friendship wif urs...perhaps they are juz busy wif their own stuff....but deep down...they will still haf u inside their hearts...and will be willing to help u wif any problems...
so in the meantime...i guess u juz got urself to urself...help urself overcome anything on ur own...not everyone can be there for you....

sometimes its not taking u for granted...i think the words abit too heavy...
it is at times when people got their own stuff and problems to deal wif...and tend to juz leave u stranded there....u get me??
actually wad i am trying to say is sometimes there isnt a need to care so much about others...as long as u know u can handle urself...tats enuf...u know there isnt a need to depend on others is the most impt...