some stuff to add on about whether a guy and a gal can be best fren...yea lil...sometimes its the frens thingie...they sorta do 'extra' things...make everything more troublesome...but most ppl shud understand la...ppl are becoming more open minded nowadays....about the feelings part...erm...well i think they shud be some la....but some frenship is juz pure frenship...tat they enjoy being wif one another and stuff...no lovey feelings or any sort...but sometimes a long lasting relationship juz start out from there...