To a certain Miss Zhang:

It would not be fair to say we are extremely close friends, yet we do enjoy each other's company pretty much. I wouldn't say i know everything about you either, neither do i know about what really happened. But i think i want to say some things to you, and that in any form or manner, this may just help in anyways.

I saw the entry by your friend written to you, and yes it's pretty true. At the same time, guys ain't really that bad either. Only some. I will use my 'guy's' way to write this piece.

I don't know what stage or phase you are in now, but from what i heard, it shocked me. It pains me too because you deserve so much better. Your life isn't meant to dwell so long in this state because of some stupid guy who isn't matured and steady enough to appreciate you.

I mean i make mistakes too. We all do, and once in awhile we all screw up. We have our bad and lousy periods of our lives, and then we cry and mop over it all, and whine out to the world how effed up our lives are. And then it must stop there and then.

You have always been strong, and have been putting up a brave front. Yet if you think it's preventing you from moving on, do something else. We are all here for you. I am here for you too. There's always hope in life. A relationship isn't about ever-lasting goodness. I am sure there were the many moments both of you were really happy, treat those as dear memories because you yourself know that you own them. And that's it. Those were part of your very life and will stay as memories. Yes it IS sad but life isn't all happy. Life isn't only about one person, isn't about all the promises both of you made, neither is it about all the perfect pictures you had envision both of you. It's not about an ownership of a certain person. Because anything can happen anytime.

Life is about being happy, living your life to the fullest and enjoying every moment as it comes. Some things are just not meant to be, and no matter how stubborn we can be, we just must accept it all.

If he is going to come back, will you take him back? Aren't you afraid he will hurt you all over again? Why subject yourself to this risk when there are clearly people out there who will care for you and love you for the way you are? Why keep the hope when what you ought to do is to keep your eyes open for new possibilities?

The possibilities are endless, and each one comes even more exciting than the previous one. Let yourself go and enjoy romance once again. Do not ever tell yourself no one can replace him because you would be surprise when things happen.