It's funny how i got exposed to 2 cases of r/s recently whereby the girl is held 'hostage' by their bf despicably. And it's really puzzling why the girls allow such things to happen.

I attempted to do profiling for both of them and i realized they have a lot of fear. Usually due to the things they have done ... but even if its due to fear of their parents knowing, i cannot fathom the thought that parents do not stand by their daughter's side against the evil bf.

HAHA trust me to say that when i was once the 'evil' bf and someone had to use her dad against me. Funny how things work out eh?

Anyway my point is this, a girl should never be the overly extreme xiao nue ren and everything is so dependent on the guy's mood. Whatever threats he comes up with ... erm guys should never even come up with threats in the first place.

It's just sad la. And it's been ongoing for so long. Like wtf la. And i thought i got pretty good logic and persuasion skills. Now i am just using all kinds and methods of questioning just to let her see some sort of light. Can't believe the blindness.